Understanding the 3-3-3 Rule in Dog Training

Understanding the 3-3-3 Rule in Dog Training

Chewy Chums

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What Is the 3-3-3 Rule?

The 3-3-3 rule is a simple framework widely used by dog trainers, shelters, and behaviorists to describe a dog’s adjustment timeline in a new environment—especially after adoption or rehoming.

It breaks the transition into three phases:

  • 3 Days: Decompression
  • 3 Weeks: Learning the routine
  • 3 Months: Full adjustment and trust building

Phase 1: The First 3 Days — Decompression

This is when your dog is overwhelmed. Everything is new. They might sleep a lot, hide, bark excessively, or seem shut down. Avoid overwhelming them with training, affection, or exposure.

What to do:

  • Let them explore at their own pace
  • Keep noise and visitors minimal
  • Introduce structure gently with meals and potty breaks

Phase 2: The First 3 Weeks — Routine Building

Your dog is now learning what’s expected. This is the time to introduce clear rules and routines.

What to do:

  • Start short, structured training sessions (5–10 minutes)
  • Introduce toys like NeverBite™ to begin redirecting mouthing and teaching impulse control
  • Use cues like “drop it,” “wait,” and “gentle” in daily play
  • Monitor behavior changes and note triggers

Phase 3: The First 3 Months — Trust and Transformation

By now, your dog begins to feel safe and confident. They understand your tone, body language, and routine. This is when deeper training and behavior change takes hold.

What to do:

  • Practice consistent training daily with redirection-based tools
  • Challenge their focus through structured play (NeverBite™ is ideal)
  • Solidify socialization skills and calm responses around people
  • Address regressions with calm redirection—not scolding

How NeverBite™ Helps at Every Stage

  • During Decompression: Use as a non-threatening bonding toy
  • During Routine Building: Introduce redirection to reduce problem behavior
  • During Long-Term Training: Reinforce cue-based play and hand protection

Final Word From the Crew

The 3-3-3 rule reminds us that trust takes time. Give your pup grace. Be consistent. And use the right tools to lead with structure and safety.

🏴☠️ One toy. Three phases. NeverBite™ helps you train the right way from day one.

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